In life doesn't matter how, where or whom we grow up, because at one point we have a line to cross. This line could be the first job, the first time we obbey our parents or the first time we do the right thing.
Life is chalenge that we all have to face no matter how rich or poor, no matter how strong or weak we are at some time we have to get out of our parents nurturing arms.

As people, we think we are defined by the car we drive, the clothes we wear or the gut we have in ace of danger, but by my perspective we are defined by a unique event that marked our existence and we try to relive that feeling in every thing we do after that life-changing event.

It's hard to say what that thing is. For example, for some people the fact that they bought their first car changed their lifes or for others the fact that they followed the familly path and accomplished something more is unique, but for others can be one kiss behind a tree with someone they will never see in their life.Like I said it's the same no matter what. In that second your whole life is changed; you gain a new perspective, you become more confident and soon you will try to reach that peak again.

And this is where thing begin to complicate. We are not living in a dream, we don't posses super power to control minds and we are not the second son of God on Earth and without these fictional thing that feeling seems impossible.

We are only human and we live by feelings and we make choices following mainly our heart. We seem weak to gain a power that large to put in scene a whole world because we want to relive one specific feeling. I know it seems hopeless and I heard a lot of people that they are in this situation. The consequences could be very very bad.

The real test is facing these consequences that appear after the dissapointment of an unreachable dream.
For somebody could be simply choosing a cheaper life style and for others living with the picture of a lost love in their mind in every day for the rest of their life leading to serious bad things that we all know.

But this is the simple way, the real hard thing is living with regret every day. The feeling of regret is crushing, tearing or breaking ones soul and the real fighters are the ones that can live another day with the doubt, the fact that they can follow their daily routine not letting to hurt them not one bit makes that kind of people strong.

Some decisions in life are simple, but others are very hard and we have to face the consequences every day because we have to live, the greatest gift of all...